It’s hard to believe we are nearly through 2024 when so many of us have probably given up on those New Year’s resolutions in an attempt to get our health back on track. But you’re not alone. In fact, more than 80 percent of people fall back on old habits by February, according to U.S. News and World Report.
It can be difficult to prioritize our health when there are so many aspects of our lives that demand our attention – things like work, family and deciding what to eat for dinner every day. It’s not like we can just suddenly graduate from medical school or online nurse practitioner programs and automatically be motivated to perfectly take care of ourselves. Honestly, most of us feel like we can only manage the bare minimum if we’re lucky. Anything more than that can feel overwhelming and discourage further action in order to make a change.
mental health
issues such as eating disorders or depression that can make these healthier changes harder to achieve and maintain. Others may lack a support system or may not know how to effectively make informed decisions to improve their health.The point is that what might be healthy for you can look completely different to someone else. So accessing resources and support, whether physical, mental or anything in between, is important when assessing what will be best for your health and your body, inside and out.
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or any beneficial exercise? All of these are great examples, but how do you actually plan it out? It might sound silly, but research has shown that you are more likely to be successful in reaching your goals if you write them down. In fact, a Harvard Business study found that you can be 10 times more likely to succeed if your goals are written down.There is actually a useful mnemonic term that can assist with writing out goals effectively. The term, coined in 1981, is known as S.M.A.R.T. Making “smart” goals refers to goals that are Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant and Timely. In other words, the more detailed and realistic your goals are, the easier it is to achieve them and succeed.
some of which have led to illness and even in some cases, death
. It is vital to take everything you read and see online (or anywhere) with a grain of salt. Besides, new knowledge, especially in the health industry, is updated constantly as experts learn more through access to better resources and technology.It’s always best to stick with credible sources such as peer-reviewed journal articles and checking in with your health-care team (doctors, therapists, etc.) to gain even more perspective and confirmation before making any significant changes to your health.
unprocessed feelings or trauma
, whether we are aware of it or not. Next time you engage in behavior that hinders your health in any way, notice if there is any self-negative talk or feelings of shame occurring. These are common experiences for those that make many unhealthy choices and are a strong indicator that something deeper may be at play.Of course, investing in therapy is one of the best ways to work on your issues, but if that is not possible right now for whatever reason, practicing affirmations can be a great start in making improvements to your health. It seems too good to be true but the truth is, when given information, our brains don’t really know the difference between what is real and what is not. Intrusive thoughts can be tricky like that. When we think negative thoughts about ourselves often, the brain can interpret those thoughts as truth, despite what the reality is.
affirmations
may feel weird or uncomfortable when you start but, over time, with enough repetition, you can train your brain to believe in the positive things you say about yourself, rather than the negative. The idea is that positive thoughts can lead to positive attitudes, which can inspire positive action. This may not be the “solution” to your problems but it is definitely a great start. Ultimately, no one really heals from negative (usually untrue) beliefs about oneself. Patience and compassion go a long way, so be gentle with yourself.5. Embrace Progress, Not Perfection
The most important takeaway is that it is OK to make mistakes. Perfection does not exist and even if it did, it’s not as impressive as it sounds. Being perfect infers that no improvement is needed. The inability to improve also means the inability to learn and grow. Our biggest advantage as human beings is our capacity to adapt to new situations. Our survival thus far relies on this very skill.
Perfection stagnates personal development and without that, what’s the point? Think about it: most of us are just trying to become better versions of ourselves, and that’s why making these lifestyle changes is so important to us. So, never give up your endeavors. When things are not going your way or you “fail,” you can always try again – as many times as you want. Progress is what leads to success, not perfection.
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